CLEANLINESS AND ORDER vs. FREEDOM AND RELAXATIONAnna and George have been married for a number of years. They have each settled into their own stances concerning various matters on which they do not agree. One of those is just how clean and in order the house must be. Annas standards are much higher than Georges. He too has a need for the house to be clean and in order, but not to the same degree as Anna.When things are not “perfect,” Anna feels uncomfortable; she c…
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“WE NEED TO SPEAK” vs. “LEAVE ME ALONE”Some people solve their problems by talking; others by retreating into themselves. When these two types form a close personal relationship, conflicts may ensue. Let us say that Mary has a need to communicate her feelings, needs, fears and/or the family problems to her husband. John, on the other hand, consuming most of his energy professionally, has a need to be quiet and not very communicative when at home. He might be program…
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Mr. L. Rx discusses how to create a relationship with a partner who is working with you to create the relationship - What to do and what to avoid.
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CONTROL vs. FLOWEach person, in his attempt to find security, affirmation, happiness and harmony in his life, searches for ways in which he can most effectively create the world he desires. Some people have become programmed to believe they can do this only by controlling the situations and people around them. Others believe that matters work out better when they let things flow. Some prefer not to confront problems or issues, especially when that entails the possibility …
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When we do not get what we want from our relationships
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Mr. L. Rx discusses the different types of create and the use of “gradients” in developing and improving relationships
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